tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38100801043183482772024-02-02T01:30:12.895-05:00The Ramblings of Denise DilleyUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger174125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3810080104318348277.post-29289429472878103682016-02-22T21:06:00.003-05:002016-02-22T21:07:33.821-05:00The Biggest Loser Didn't Want Me (But Faithful Finish Lines Does)On the eve of the Biggest Loser's finale, my mind goes back to my own weight loss journey and experience with the show.<br />
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Several years ago, my mom and I attended an open casting call in Columbus. We got up at the crack of dawn to drive an hour from home to wait in line <b>all day long</b> with other potential candidates. The folks who stood in line with us were amazing, all with incredible stories and good reasons for wanting to get on the show. Obviously, all of us were overweight and in need of someone to guide us on our journey to health. For some, this was their <i style="font-weight: bold;">one shot</i> at losing weight and getting healthy.<br />
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When the line finally dwindled and the wait for the audition was within reach, my mom and I were handed applications to fill out for the casting directors. Then we were ushered into another large room where we were herded into different groups. There we were also able to meet some of our favorite past season contestants, Coleen Skeabeck and Shellay Cremen (seriously two of the sweetest ladies!). They offered some excellent advise: BE YOURSELF and tell your own story.<br />
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After waiting literally all day, mom and I along with 10-15 other potential contestants were escorted into a large conference room where a casting director was waiting for us. The casting director didn't waste any time with asking us to answer why we wanted to be on the show, what kind of contestant we thought we'd be, and to tell him something unique about ourselves. You can imagine 10-15 of us vying for this guy's attention, all within the 5 minute time span we had.<br />
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(Yes, this introvert who hates being the center of attention, thought this casting call was FUN!)<br />
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But here's the thing: the Biggest Loser didn't want me.<br />
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Because that opportunity led me to where I am today.<br />
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I've been on a fitness journey for years now. My journey is not <i>just</i> about weight loss. Weight loss is definitely a part of my journey, but it is much more than that. This journey is about getting healthy in body, mind, and spirit. It is about making small, attainable goals for myself then actually taking the necessary steps to meet those goals.<br />
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And I'm not alone on this journey.<br />
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Thankfully God has surrounded me with family and friends who encourage and motivate me in this journey.<br />
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<b>He's also gifted me with Faithful Finish Lines.</b><br />
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Faithful Finish Lines is an online fitness group that has changed my life! It all starts with the <a href="https://www.faithfulfinishlines.com/steppingforward/" target="_blank">Stepping Forward program</a> which is a 7 week online program for women that incorporates the healthy eating, physical activity, and mental strategies that leader, <a href="http://www.saraborgstede.com/" target="_blank">Sara Borgestede</a>, learned during her 100-pound weight loss journey. Sara, along with personal trainer, Corrine, and community leader, Christine, will give you safe, practical, and realistic strategies to aide you in your journey to a healthier you!<br />
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The best part of the Faithful Finish Lines program, in my opinion, is the community of women that are going through this journey with me! This community is always full of encouragement and helps motivate me to continue going when I just want to throw in the towel.<br />
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If you're looking for a kick-start to your fitness journey, <a href="https://www.faithfulfinishlines.com/steppingforward/" target="_blank">Faithful Finish Lines</a> is for you.<br />
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If you're looking for a program that is simple to follow and gives you results, <a href="https://www.faithfulfinishlines.com/steppingforward/" target="_blank">Faithful Finish Lines</a> is for you.<br />
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If you're looking for an amazing community which will support you every step of the way, <a href="https://www.faithfulfinishlines.com/steppingforward/" target="_blank">Faithful Finish Lines</a> is for you.<br />
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What are you waiting for? <a href="https://www.faithfulfinishlines.com/steppingforward/" target="_blank">Sign up today</a>! The small financial investment is worth it. (Registrations ends tomorrow)<br />
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YOU ARE WORTH IT!!!<br />
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<b>Are you on a fitness journey? Who are the people in your life who support you?</b><br />
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My corner of the web has sat quiet for more than a year.<div>
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For the most part, I just haven't felt like I had anything to say that would add to the conversations already being had on the web. My personality tends to err on the side of not saying anything at all unless I have something worth saying, words which add value to someone else's life.</div>
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For several years, I participated in the whole <a href="http://oneword365.com/" target="_blank">One Word</a> challenge. I'd pray and ask God to show me a word for the year to focus on. A word that would be the theme for my life for the next 365 days. </div>
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<b>FAITH - </b>Faith in Jesus is the center of who I am. Without faith, my life would be but a shallow existence. When I was a little girl, God rocked my world and changed my life. It didn't happen overnight; the change was gradual, and is still happening. The closer I draw to Jesus, the more my life changes. </div>
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This year, my heart longs to be even more faithful in my relationship with Jesus. I want to sit in the quiet with Him and hear His heart beat more than in past yeas. I want to linger in His presence like Mary rather than constantly being busy doing His work like Martha. Oh, His work is good, and I'll keep doing it. But I don't want to miss out on those precious quiet times with Him.</div>
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<b>FAMILY</b> - My family means the world to me! God has blessed me with an incredible mom, stepdad, brothers, stepsisters, husband, parents-in-law, sisters-in-law, nieces and nephews. We're a crazy bunch, each of us with our own personalities and quirks. But I wouldn't trade my family in for the world. God puts us in families, and I love mine.</div>
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This year, my desire is to spend more time with my family. The past couple of years with my family has been a roller coaster ride, to say the least. God has and continues to work a HUGE miracle in my family. I cannot wait to see what His plans are for us.</div>
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<b>FINANCES - </b>Money. I have a love/hate relationship with money. I wish I had more of it (don't we all?). At the same time, managing money has never been my strong suit, so I need to be more faithful with what I've work hard for and have been given. </div>
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This year, my goal is to get my finances in better order. Last year I took a leap of faith with the NO LIMITS campaign at church and committed to giving an amount that I'm still not sure how I'm going to give. But God knows. And I trust that He is going to show up and show off with my finances as I continue to be faithful in this area.</div>
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So why focus on fitness? Honestly, I've been on a fitness journey since 2014. I was introduced to an online fitness group called <a href="http://denisedilley.blogspot.com/2014/11/focus-on-positive.html" target="_blank">Faithful Finish Lines</a> and the group has changed me for the better. This year, I am continuing to focus on fitness so that I can be a healthier version of myself so that I can be more, do more, and go more!</div>
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<b>FUN - </b>Because who doesn't need a little bit of fun in their lives?! Truly, I believe that God is a good, loving, FUN God! The creator of the universe is the author of fun. He loves it when His kids enjoy their lives with Him, their family, and friends.</div>
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So this year, I'm going to focus on having a good time with the life I've been given because it's the only one I've got!</div>
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This year, my blog may sit quiet more often than not, but I feel like I'm finding my words again. I hope you'll join me on the journey...</div>
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<b>The new year has come and gone, but it's never too late to find your words! What 5 areas of your life do you feel like God is telling you to focus on this year? Share in the comments!</b></div>
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Three weeks ago I started a journey to get healthy. It's not the first time I've started such a journey, but my hope is that this time will lead to a lifetime of change. You see, <a href="http://www.saraborgstede.com/online-faith-and-fitness-program/" target="_blank">Faithful Finish Lines</a> is a tangible program. It starts by asking the journey-taker to create "God-given, short-term fitness goals that balance with family priorities, promote eating for energy, and include mission and fun." <div>
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Another reason I love the program is that not only are the leaders (<a href="http://www.saraborgstede.com/" target="_blank">Sara</a> & Jill) super inspiring and encouraging, but the members of the group are as well! We spend time each week logging onto the Faithful Finish Lines Facebook page to cheer each other on in our journey. Faithful Finish Lines isn't something you do on your own, which often leads to giving up and going back to your old way of doing things. Instead, Faithful Finish Lines has a built-in accountability system. There are other people walking alongside you in this journey, encouraging and lifting you up in prayer, while you do the same for them. It's amazing, and I'm so so thankful to be a part of this wonderful group!</div>
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Confession time: while I love love LOVE everything about Faithful Finish Lines, change is HARD! If you've been paying attention to the blog, you've noticed I've not blogged about FFL in two weeks. These past two weeks have been super difficult as I've tried to walk this journey to a healthier life. Some of the changes have been simple, such as adding more fruits and veggies to the diet. But other things have been a challenge, such as increasing my activity. Week one I was determined to get moving more and was walking 1.2 miles every other night. Week two I started out strong then it got cold outside, so I lost all motivation. Not to mention, I can't seem to get this eating under my calorie goal thing down. It's because I don't want to give up some of my favorite things (Mt Dew mostly).</div>
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Last week I avoided the Faithful Finish Lines Facebook page. I ignored Sara's emails asking me to let her know what my short-term fitness goal was going to be. The truth was, I was discouraged because I felt the weight of making this <i>huge</i> lifestyle change. I finally reached out to Sara and let her know I was discouraged, and she responded with such encouragement. She reminded me that I needed to give myself credit for the progress that I was making, even if it seemed small to me. </div>
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So this week I've decided to focus on the positive! Though they may seem small, these changes I've made are going to help me in the long-term:</div>
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Also, the short-term fitness goal I've chosen is to attempt to walk a 5K! I officially signed up for the <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/rudolf-run-2014-registration-13787459663?aff=ehomecard" target="_blank">Rudolf Run</a> which is coming up soon on Thursday, December 4th!! This event is going to be super fun as it's a night-time event that comes along with blink-y noses so all the folks participating can look like Rudolf. :) I'm also walking with a mission -- to honor some folks in my life who are cancer survivors. These folks inspire me each and every day to continue to live a better life!</div>
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Ever since I participated in the <a href="http://denisedilley.blogspot.com/p/31-days-challenge.html" target="_blank">#write31days challenge</a>, the thing that keeps coming back to me is that it's OK to give myself grace. There will be times in life where things get difficult, when I'll feel like quitting, and maybe I'll even give up for a while. But instead of giving up permanently, grace says it's OK to start again.</div>
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<b>If you're on this Faithful Fitness Lines journey with me, THANK YOU for your encouragement along the way. Whether you've actually personally said something to me or not, your words have made an impact. I'm reading your posts on Facebook as well as your blog, and your stories keep me motivated on this journey. </b></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3810080104318348277.post-39542679974153949192014-11-14T00:26:00.001-05:002014-11-14T00:26:27.498-05:00When All Goes StillThere never seems to be a quiet moment in my world. Funny enough, I don't have kids, so you'd think there would be plenty of quiet time in my life.<div>
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<b>Today I'm joining up with hundreds of others who like to take five minutes every Friday to free write. There's no need to be perfect or to worry about taking time to edit. Feel free to join us as we link up <a href="http://katemotaung.com/2014/11/13/five-minute-friday-still/" target="_blank">here</a>!</b></div>
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There's something about the sun settling down on the western skyline that brings joy to my heart. Whether it's the gorgeous shades of yellow, orange, and red spray painted over the blue-purple sky, or the silhouettes of the trees in the foreground. </div>
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You know what else is inspiring? A group of people who band together to make changes in their lives and are encouraging each other on their journey together!</div>
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Last week I started a journey as part of a group called <a href="http://denisedilley.blogspot.com/2014/11/faithful-finish-lines.html?m=1" target="_blank">Faithful Finish Lines</a>. It has been such a joy to be on this journey with these brave, inspirational women. We're all at different stages in our journey, but that doesn't matter. What matters is that we're doing it together!</div>
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I'm also a part of a Facebook holiday challenge group. The goal is to get up and move for 30 minutes each day. I suck at exercise, but it's been so inspiring to see each person post every day when they've got their 30 minutes in. Plus they're cheering each other on! </div>
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<br>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3810080104318348277.post-63542731532865534652014-11-10T00:23:00.000-05:002014-11-10T00:27:10.047-05:00Faithful Finish Lines<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">Silence. </span><br>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">That's what you've heard on the blog these last ten days. After the flurry of writing in October, I took some time away from the blog to just be. Thirty-one straight (almost) days of writing was quite the challenge! One I'm proud to have participated in and conquered (even if I didn't write every single day). {<i><a href="http://denisedilley.blogspot.com/p/31-days-challenge.html?m=1" target="_blank">You can read all the 31 days of simply writing posts here!</a>}</i></span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">So if you've known me any length of time you know I'm hugely overweight. Always have been. Well, except from like birth to 6 years old. Once I turned 7 it was like the pounds just crept up on me and never left no matter how active I was! Well, except that one time when I went to India and faithfully woke up every day for mandatory exercise at 7am and then walked a bazillion miles every day to get wherever we were going for five months. 40 pounds melted right off me those months regardless of the number of cokes I drank or the fact that I ate a Big Mac (lamb burger, anyone?) every day. </span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">This week I've kept track of my eating habits and caloric intake by using MyFitnessPal as well as my exercise (or lack thereof) with RunKeeper. I've also made plans to meet with a friend of mine to learn the art of clean eating and possibly some personal training. I've also been reading and chatting with some of the other FFL participants, which has been so encouraging. Not to mention, I love receiving encouraging and inspiring emails from Sara a couple of times a week. She's been where I've been but has also seen the other side. </span></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3810080104318348277.post-7044206772484215202014-10-31T20:16:00.001-04:002014-10-31T20:16:55.364-04:00The End (or is it?) {Day 31}Today is the final day of the #write31days challenge hosted by The Nester. The challenge was simple - write every day for 31 days. I joined up with thousands of others and wrote. I missed a couple of days, but that's OK.<div><br></div><div>I still wrote. </div><div><br></div><div>I didn't give up when I missed a day. I just picked up where I left off and wrote. </div><div><br></div><div>Like a couple of years ago when I started working out but didn't see the results on the scale. I felt better physically and mentally, but wasn't looking pounds. So I gave up. I stopped working out. Even though I loved Zumba, I quit going to class. </div><div><br></div><div>Also a couple of years ago I started writing a book with my husband and beat friend. We wrote and wrote and wrote. Then life got busy and crazy and just in the way. So the writing slacked off. Then eventually stopped. Though I loved colloborating and creating something with my favorite people, I quit. </div><div><br></div><div>But this time was different. I could have given up after I missed a day, but I didn't. I kept going. </div><div><br></div><div>I gave myself grace. </div><div><br></div><div>This afternoon I was thinking about how sometimes we're our harshest critic. It is easier for most people to forgive others but so hard for us to forgive ourselves. We can give grace but think we don't deserve it. </div><div><br></div><div>Yet we need to accept grace when it's offered. And we need to extend it to ourselves sometimes. </div><div><br></div><div>So as the 31 days of simply writing series comes to a close, I challenge you to give yourself grace. This challenge may be ending, but the real challenge is just beginning: taking what we've learned these past 31 days and applying it to our lives. For me, that means to keep writing. To not give up when I get off track. To give myself grace even though it is super hard sometimes. </div><div><br></div><div><i>What have you learned these past 31 days? </i></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3810080104318348277.post-19730764686797032232014-10-29T21:32:00.002-04:002014-10-29T21:40:52.392-04:00The Little Things {Day 28-29}<div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9oSTAs47ro70HkgXbQAoc-k1y5-u7O9VEb6jw6DQf0z0SSP4lnmkKDFzwVQrS4L3_XJWMLJPue39mkzvaqjBHSghUWMZDbc5KvRX-25teLAiiVCzBZn4WDjxX0jhyzonFpMJnd97vexE/s640/blogger-image-1181192035.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9oSTAs47ro70HkgXbQAoc-k1y5-u7O9VEb6jw6DQf0z0SSP4lnmkKDFzwVQrS4L3_XJWMLJPue39mkzvaqjBHSghUWMZDbc5KvRX-25teLAiiVCzBZn4WDjxX0jhyzonFpMJnd97vexE/s640/blogger-image-1181192035.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div><br></div>This week has been (and will continue to be) extremely busy. Three days this week have (or will) keep me away from home until late in the evening. Though they're all good things, it makes for an exhausting week.<br>
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My sweet girl, Mounika, is my <a href="http://denisedilley.blogspot.com/2012/11/changing-world-one-child-at-time.html?m=1" target="_blank">Compassion child</a>. She's a sweet 10 year old girl from India. It is an absolute joy to get a letter from her. She writes of her love for Jesus, her family, friends, and school. Her birthday was earlier this year and we were able to send her a little extra $ so she could get something special. She wrote that she was able to get a couple of dresses and make-up which makes her feel beautiful. </div>
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Many of us have grand ideas of changing the world. But we become overwhelmed. We think changing the world is too big a job. Especially for one person. But one person can change the world, if they focus on the world around them. Each of us have our own sphere of influence. And we can do little things each day to influence change in our part of the world. </div>
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<i>This is day 28-29 of the 31 days of simply writing series. <a href="http://denisedilley.blogspot.com/p/31-days-challenge.html?m=1" target="_blank">Click here to read from the beginning</a>. And thanks for stopping by! Feel free to subscribe to receive my posts directly in your inbox. </i></div>
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One of my roles in life is Outreach Coordinator at Centerpoint Church. </div>
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I love everything about this role. From planning various projects to leading teams to seeing people get excited about showing #crazylove in little (and sometimes big) ways! </div>
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This week our church is doing a unique outreach we've dubbed "Trick or Treat with Bob." (Bob is our kid's ministry mascot. He's an orange tiger, and kids love him.) Unlike most churches, we're not doing an alternative Halloween event. No trunk-or-treat, Hallelujah Night, or Harvest party for us. Instead of staying within our four walls on Halloween and inviting folks to come to us, we are going to them! We have 10 different host homes throughout various locations in our community who are just gonna pass out special gift bags full of candy, stickers, temporary tattoos, etc. And, at one location, kids will get to meet Bob. It's going to be a great night!</div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3810080104318348277.post-37003637211009990802014-10-22T22:27:00.001-04:002014-10-22T22:27:59.573-04:00Live, Dream, Learn {Day 22}Today has been a long day of work then unpacking/organizing a few rooms in my new home. Yes, I moved! (Sorry if you're just leanrning of this exciting new adventure... I didn't tell many people.)<div><br></div><div>To be honest, I wasn't sure what I was going to write today. I thought about just skipping because I'm so exhausted. But the challenge is to write something every single day. And I hate to lose a challenge. :)</div><div><br></div><div>Thank goodness for cable tv and Ghosthunters! Yes, friends, tonight's post is inspired by none other than something I saw on a tv show. </div><div><br></div><div>The Ghosthunters crew is investigating the Trans-Allegheny Lunatic Asylum. A few minutes ago a few minutes of the team passed by a sign that read:</div><div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiC02ek5w5YhWTh1i_lbs8wnI1yB2NZM3iqdLswzCVCFWQHD863v7eAQrYSj9cRfSPc8e2K3zLtLtCaWSYt0nmXXVXa_Ge5U3rWogjbgQKl6ijOuDgRGrl24OUpIneCaHdi0eUdsyJPrY0/s640/blogger-image-1776243254.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiC02ek5w5YhWTh1i_lbs8wnI1yB2NZM3iqdLswzCVCFWQHD863v7eAQrYSj9cRfSPc8e2K3zLtLtCaWSYt0nmXXVXa_Ge5U3rWogjbgQKl6ijOuDgRGrl24OUpIneCaHdi0eUdsyJPrY0/s640/blogger-image-1776243254.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">When I saw this, it reminded me that life is all about balance. Far too often I can be stuck in the past, dwelling on all the things that I used to do or all the bad things that happened. Or I spend so much time thinking and planning about what I'm gonna buy when I get X amount of money or where I'm gonna go on vacation. Sometimes I'm so engrossed in the past or focused on the future that I forget to live in the present. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">If life is all about balance, then it's OK to dream about the future and learn from the mistakes of the past. But I also have to live in the here and now. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><i><b>Right now, I'm living in the present. My here and now is chilling out on my new-to-me couch and watching Ghosthunters. What are you doing? ;)</b></i></div><br></div><div>If you're joining me for the first time, this is Day 22 of the 31 days of Simply Writing series. I'm just one of thousands of other bloggers who linking up for the #write31days challenge. Feel free to browse my other posts and leave a comment to say "hi!"</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3810080104318348277.post-27205292565858868902014-10-22T00:58:00.001-04:002014-10-22T00:58:13.310-04:00Just Being Real {Day 21}My husband and I are in the middle of a big life changing situation -- we are moving! So I'm a little more than exhausted at the moment. But I wanted to take a few minutes to talk about something I've been thinking about for the past couple of days. Especially this evening as I was in a meeting with a couple of folks talking about this exact topic: being real. <div><br></div><div>The buzzword these days is authenticity. </div><div><br></div><div>Whether you're in a church or leadership or business or marketing, that's what people are talking about these days. The idea is that this generation is all about being real, authentic. If it's anything other than authentic, forget about it. </div><div><br></div><div>What's the big deal about authenticity? For many, especially those who identify as Christian or a part of the church, being authentic is being able to be who you are with fear of judgement. It is coming to church just as you are with whatever baggage you have, whatever hurts and misconceptions you might have, questions and doubts, you name it. It's OK not to have your stuff together. </div><div><br></div><div>For me, authenticity allows me to say I struggle to trust God even though I've been walking this faith journey for more than 20 years. That I struggle being a wife, often getting angry rather than giving grace. That I struggle with showing emotion because I'd rather feel physical pain instead of emotional pain. </div><div><br></div><div>And even as I type this post on authenticity, there's still a wall up to guard against judgement. </div><div><br></div><div>Just being real.</div><div><br></div><div><i>Be real with me: what do you think about authenticity and the church?</i></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3810080104318348277.post-62862943258801431102014-10-20T22:48:00.001-04:002014-10-20T22:48:25.880-04:00Storm Clouds {Day 20}<i>Today I'm joining up with the folks over at <a href="http://www.blessedbutstressed.com/inspire-me-mondays/" target="_blank">Inspire Me Mondays</a> where we post something positive to start off our work week. Since Monday is my least favorite day of the week, it's easy for me to be negative. But I've chosen for over a year now to find the good, the beautiful, the positive on Mondays. I hope you'll join me in doing the same!</i><div>
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For the past 20 days I've been writing every single day for the <a href="http://www.write31days.com/" target="_blank">#write31days challenge</a>. My posts always hold a hint of what I'm going through in life, but never do they divulge the whole story. Maybe one day. But for now, it's enough to know that life is stormy.</div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3810080104318348277.post-30356452593814698482014-10-19T12:54:00.001-04:002014-10-19T12:54:46.891-04:00Sanctuary {Day 19}<div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLQBO_5wPT92Ja-4HWwtHkrDIh5xjidebunyCBO86jJAWJ1ocvf8a0T42xhjtXtOEiB0Iiaw9QenblDF4Sv1e5flmX5ulQxC9xqRkK52IYN5HznhW5VoWcew2wctIRdoX3s9ep9_8K6b8/s640/blogger-image-1708770947.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLQBO_5wPT92Ja-4HWwtHkrDIh5xjidebunyCBO86jJAWJ1ocvf8a0T42xhjtXtOEiB0Iiaw9QenblDF4Sv1e5flmX5ulQxC9xqRkK52IYN5HznhW5VoWcew2wctIRdoX3s9ep9_8K6b8/s640/blogger-image-1708770947.jpg"></a></div><br></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">Church has been a part of my life since my mom started going when I was 10. I'd been to church before that, but it wasn't an important part of my life. It was an occasional thing, like for Christmas or Easter or a weekend spent at Nana's. </span></div></div><div><br></div><div>But from the time I was 10, that all changed. My family was in church twice on Sundays and on Wednesday evenings. Anytime there was a special service or event, we'd be there. Basically whenever the doors were open, we were in a seat (or serving.)</div><div><br></div><div>Church has been a huge part of my life for many, many years. I grew up in the church. It molded me and shaped me into who I am today, and it continues to do so. </div><div><br></div><div>But for many, the church hasn't been such a wonderful place. It's been a place of hurt. Of broken promises. Of deceit, hypocrisy, and hate. </div><div><br></div><div>This morning as I was driving home from church, an old church song popped into my head that really spoke to me:</div><div><br></div><div><i>Lord, prepare me</i></div><div><i>To be a sanctuary.</i></div><div><i>Pure and holy,</i></div><div><i>Tried and true.</i></div><div><i>With thanksgiving,</i></div><div><i>I'll be a living </i></div><div><i>Sanctuary </i></div><div><i>Lord, for you. </i></div><div><i><br></i></div><div>This, friends, is what the church should be. A sanctuary. A safe place for people on the midst of the brokenness. A refuge which offers healing. </div><div><br></div><div>There are some folks who have been so hurt, so battered by the church that they'll never step back into a church building. Folks who want nothing to do with Christians. </div><div><br></div><div>As followers of Jesus, we have a long way to go to repair and restore the church's image. </div><div><br></div><div><b>The church - you & me - are to be a living sanctuary. A place of hope for our family and friends. </b></div><div><br></div><div>I don't know about you, but my prayer this morning is that I can be a sanctuary for those around me. I want to be a safe place for my family and friends. I want to be able to offer hope and healing to those who are in need of it. My heart longs to be a follower of Jesus who helps bring about mending broken hearts and restoring broken lives. </div><div><br></div><div>If you're reading this and have been hurt by the church, I'm so sorry. My heart grieves for you and hopes you will find a safe place where you can heal. That Jesus will mend those broken pieces of your life. </div><div><br></div><div>I hope you will find sanctuary here. </div><div><br></div><div><i>Have you found sanctuary? Are you a sanctuary for people in your life?</i></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3810080104318348277.post-24355639562202270902014-10-18T22:35:00.001-04:002014-10-18T22:35:57.653-04:00Like Mother, Like Daughter {Day 18}One of my all-time favorite TV shows is Gilmore Girls. Thanks to Netflix I have been binge-watching the show most of the day. Well, the early afternoon and now late evening. <div><br></div><div>If you've never watched the show, it's about a mother-daughter relationship. Lorelei and Rory have more of a friendship than your typical mother-daughter relationship. They share a love of movies, tv, music, junk food, and coffee. They're quick-witted and super-intelligent. </div><div><br></div><div>There's so much about this show that I love. But the one thing is that it reminds me of my own relationship with my mom. Growing up my mom and I had our issues. We fought about stuff like any mother and daughter would. I had a terrible problem of back talking. </div><div><br></div><div>At the same time, my mom was (and still is) my best friend. She and I have always been able to talk about anything and everything, even if we don't agree. We both love to read and often share books. We also both love music, though I'm more of a rock-n-roll kind of girl and she loves contemporary Christian. (We do share a love of worship music, though.) She's a coffee drinker and I'm not. And she loves to watch the news and I could care less. </div><div><br></div><div>The one most important thing we have in common, besides each other, is our relationship with Jesus. My mom was instrumental in my coming to believe in God. At the age of 10, mom started taking my brothers and I to church. 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It's Friday which means I'm joining up with the <a href="http://katemotaung.com/" target="_blank">Five Minute Friday community</a>. Every Friday we write for five minutes on a specific topic. No editing. No backtracking. No worrying if things are perfect. Here we go...</div>
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<i>Oh, give thanks to the LORD, for He is good! For His mercy endures forever. Let the redeemed of the LORD say so, Whom He has redeemed from the hand of the enemy, And gathered out of the lands, From the east and from the west, From the north and from the south. They wandered in the wilderness in a desolate way; They found no city to dwell in. Hungry and thirsty, Their soul fainted in them. Then they cried out to the LORD in their trouble, And He delivered them out of their distresses. And He led them forth by the right way, That they might go to a city for a dwelling place. Oh, that men would give thanks to the LORD for His goodness, And for His wonderful works to the children of men! For He satisfies the longing soul, And fills the hungry soul with goodness. Those who sat in darkness and in the shadow of death, Bound in affliction and ironsβ Because they rebelled against the words of God, And despised the counsel of the Most High, Therefore He brought down their heart with labor; They fell down, and there was none to help. Then they cried out to the LORD in their trouble, And He saved them out of their distresses. He brought them out of darkness and the shadow of death, And broke their chains in pieces. (Psalms 107:1-14 NKJV)</i><br>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3810080104318348277.post-30441784610245254572014-10-17T00:21:00.002-04:002014-10-17T00:24:24.522-04:00Meet Kelly {Day 16}A few years ago I used to have a series called "People You Should Know." It was inspired by blogger Matthew Paul Turner who had mentioned something on his blog about doing something similar.<br>
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Kelly is also a writer and blogger. <a href="http://kelly-thestarfish.blogspot.com/2014/10/finding-our-passion-for-people.html?spref=fb&m=1" target="_blank">Today she wrote a post on love. </a>Her heart is for folks to truly understand one another and to show love rather than judgement. We have no idea what others face on a daily basis yet we are quick to judge their words and actions. Jesus compels us to love our neighbor as ourselves. Why not give others the same grace we so often give ourselves?</div>
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This is day 16 of <a href="http://denisedilley.blogspot.com/p/31-days-challenge.html?m=1" target="_blank">31 days of simply writing</a>. If you'd like to start from the beginning, click here. You can also visit the <a href="http://www.write31days.com/" target="_blank">#write31days website</a> to visit thousands of other writers who've also joined the challenge! </i></div><div><i><br></i></div><div><b><i>What did you think of Kelly's thoughts on love?</i></b></div>
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It's also noticeable due to the excitement of all the fall TV premieres and new fall shows.<br />
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Thursday's on ABC is my favorite night of TV. God bless Shonda Rimes! She is absolutely brilliant. If you're not a fan of <i>Grey's Anatomy</i>, <i>Scandal</i>, and the oh-so-amazing new show starring Viola Davis, <i>How to Get Away with Murder</i>, I'm not sure we can be friends. Well, we can. But you really need to watch these shows. At least try. I promise you won't regret it. :)<br />
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As I type this post, another one of my favorites is on - <i>Castle</i>. It combines the best of the best - writers, cop-show drama, romance, and mystery. And Nathan Fillion absolutely makes this show what it is.<br />
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One of the new shows I'm keeping my eye on is <i>Selfie</i>. It's <a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/09/30/selfie-is-both-a-brilliant-and-terrible-tv-show.html" target="_blank">supposedly a modern re-telling of <i>My Fair Lady</i></a>, but let's be honest - I have no idea if it is or isn't because I've never seen <i>MFL</i>. (Don't shoot me.)<br />
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What I do know is that the pilot had some funny moments. Probably my favorite part of the whole pilot, though, was the opening plane scene. I don't know about you, but I found myself reliving one of my embarrassing moments. No, not finding out the guy I was in love with is married thing. The throwing up on the plane in front of everyone scene. Granted, it was only one bag instead of two, and I (thank God!) didn't have the bag of puke bust and spill all over me. Nonetheless, upon landing on one international flight a million years ago I got sick and threw up in a barf bag. And wound up with a personalized barf bag, courtesy of my team leader. (I still have that bag!)<br />
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Whether you love or hate the show (it's still to early, for me, to tell), there is one thing I learned from <i>Selfie</i>:<br />
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<b>We were created for relationships.</b><br />
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One of Eliza's standout lines from the pilot is: "When Siri is the only one who's there for you, it makes you realize: being friended is not the same thing as making friends." Despite the amount of friends she has on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram, Eliza doesn't have one real friend she can call in her time of need. That's heartbreaking! (Yes, I know it's just a TV show....)<br />
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But I'm sure she's not alone in this world. Social media can give us a false sense of community sometimes. We get excited about how many "likes" our status receives on Facebook or how many times our tweet was re-tweeted. But those numbers aren't truly indicative of our real-life relationships.<br />
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We spend so much time investing in social media. In creating our platforms. Stressing out over how many people are reading our blog posts, liking our Facebook statuses, or re-tweeting us. I've been so guilty of this, especially during this 31 day challenge. That's part of the reason I went from a consistent blogger with a small audience to a sporadic blogger with no audience in the past couple of years. I became obsessed with the numbers instead of focusing on the joy of writing.<br />
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What's interesting about this challenge is that I'm able to experience both the joy of writing and seeing my audience grow. It's still small, but I'm hoping a community will be formed at the end of the challenge. I'd love to create a safe place in my little corner of the web where folks can come just as they are and discuss a variety of topics without worrying about being judged, condemned, or whatever.<br />
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While I want to build an online community, I realize that I still need to nurture my real-life relationships. The family and friends who are going to be here when my blog has fallen to the wayside. When my online community has dispersed, and social media no longer consumes all my time.<br />
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If you're joining me for the first time, welcome! This is day 14 of a 31 day series called <a href="http://denisedilley.blogspot.com/p/31-days-challenge.html" target="_blank">31 Days of Simply Writing</a>. I've joined thousands of other writers who are <a href="http://www.write31days.com/" target="_blank">writing every day for the 31 days</a> of October.<br />
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After such a beautiful and laid back weekend, it's back to the work week. Today is Monday, so of course it is filled with it's own set of challenges, not to mention it's rainy and dreary outside. If I had the choice I would close up shop for the day and head home, climb back into bed and pull the covers over my head. Sleeping the day away sounds much better than fighting with a bad internet connection and finicky network. Since that is not an option, looks like I'm going to be choosing to find something positive about this day just like during my <a href="http://denisedilley.blogspot.com/p/manic-monday-challenge.html" target="_blank">#ManicMondayChallenge series</a> of old.</div>
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While today hasn't started off the greatest, it still holds potential. And it's already filled with little blessings:</div>
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Though I don't know what the rest of today holds, I do know this: <i><b>I am blessed</b>.</i> It is oh-so-easy for me to look at the negative things in life and wonder why God isn't working, why prayers aren't getting answered, or why things aren't easier. </div>
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Today I'm linking up with the folks over at <a href="http://www.blessedbutstressed.com/inspire-me-mondays/" target="_blank">#inspirememondays</a>. I stumbled upon this link-up through the <a href="http://www.write31days.com%2C/" target="_blank">#write31days series</a> that's happening over at <a href="http://www.thenester.com/" target="_blank">The Nester's place</a>. If you're joining me for the first time, this series is as challenging as it sounds -- write for 31 days on whatever topic (or not) of your choosing! In my case, I'm simply writing. Every. Single. Day. And what a fun, rewarding challenge it has been so far. Feel free to check out all 13 days of my <a href="http://denisedilley.blogspot.com/p/31-days-challenge.html" target="_blank">31 Days of Simply Writing</a> series. If you like what you're reading, feel free to subscribe to my blog and have posts delivered directly to your inbox!</div>
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<br>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3810080104318348277.post-34817042525856866322014-10-12T23:38:00.001-04:002014-10-12T23:38:18.262-04:00Reminder {Day 12}<b>"There's nothing worth something that won't involve struggling."</b><div><br></div><div>There is so much truth to this statement. Things of value, of immense worth, often are the result of struggle. </div><div><br></div><div>Like diamonds, for example. They are created under intense pressure and heat. </div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div>It's interesting how something so beautiful, so pure, can be created out of such an immensely painful process. </div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">Pressure and heat, for diamonds, might not be painful. But for us humans, the fire burns. The pressure becomes too much to bear. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">On Friday I wrote about how much God cares for us, and yesterday how He sustains us. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">Today I'm reminding myself that those words I wrote are true. That He cares for us and He sustains us. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">He cares for<i> me</i>.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">He sustains <i>me. </i></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><i><br></i></span></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><b>When the fire gets too hot and starts to singe my hair, He is with me. When the pressure begins to push me down, He holds me up. </b></font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><b><br></b></font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">Those things, <i>those people</i>, I'm fighting for?</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><br></font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">They are worth the struggle. </font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><br></font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">Even as I type these words and waffle back and forth wondering if I can continue the fight. </font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><br></font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><b>I fight because He fights with me and <i>for</i> me. </b></font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><b><br></b></font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><i>Are you struggling today? Know you're not alone!</i></font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><b><br></b></font></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3810080104318348277.post-72963967697224678432014-10-11T06:00:00.000-04:002014-10-11T06:00:04.551-04:00Sustain {Day 11}Yesterday I joined up with the <a href="http://katemotaung.com/five-minute-friday/" target="_blank">Five Minute Friday community</a> to <a href="http://denisedilley.blogspot.com/2014/10/care-day-10.html" target="_blank">write about <i>care</i></a>. But because we only get five minutes to write - no more, no less - my thoughts were cut short. Which is OK because that means I get to write another post!<div>
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1 Peter 5:7 tells us to "give God all your worries and cares, for he cares about you." All the little (and big!) things we have a tendency to worry about, God cares about them. But even more so, He cares about <i>us</i>. Which really shouldn't be a surprise, considering that from day one He has shown us over and over and over again just how much He cares.</div>
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Psalm 55:22 tells us to "cast your cares on the Lord and he will <u>sustain</u> you; he will never let the righteous be shaken."</div>
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Merriam-Webster defines <i>sustain</i> this way:</div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3810080104318348277.post-30929811350345439492014-10-10T13:25:00.000-04:002014-10-10T13:25:06.203-04:00Care {Day 10}Happy Friday ya'll! :)<br />
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Today I'm linking up with the <a href="http://katemotaung.com/five-minute-friday/" target="_blank">Five Minute Friday community</a> where we write for just five minutes with no editing, no worrying about being perfect. Friday has always been one of my most favorite days, and joining this community the past few weeks has made it even better! After reading my post, go check out some of the other writers. They're amazing! :)</div>
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If this is your first time stumbling onto my blog -- welcome! Glad to have you. Hope you feel right at home. This post is the 10th in a <a href="http://www.write31days.com/" target="_blank">31 day serie</a>s where I'm <a href="http://denisedilley.blogspot.com/p/31-days-challenge.html" target="_blank">simply writing</a>. No real agenda other than getting back into the groove of writing as well as disciplining myself to write every. single. day.</div>
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Sometimes circumstances of life get to be too much for me. I worry about little things, like how I'm going to pay the bills or if my car is going to finally give up and stop running. I worry about big thing, too. Like if my marriage is going to last or if my mom's health is ever going to get better.</div>
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I worry, but I shouldn't. I know logically there's nothing I can do about any of the things I worry about. Heck, this isn't even the first time I've written <a href="http://latenitechatswithdenise.blogspot.com/2010/06/why-worry.html" target="_blank">a blog post about worry</a>. You think I'd have learned my lesson by now! </div>
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Unfortunately, I haven't. I still worry. </div>
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But there's hope.</div>
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You see, in the midst of my worrying, I realize there is hope.</div>
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God knows I am going to worry about the little (and big) things going on in my life.</div>
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1 Peter 5:7 tells me to "give all my worries and cares to God, for He cares about you."</div>
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God cares about ME.</div>
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And you, too.</div>
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Not only does He care about me, but He says He will sustain me. (more about this tomorrow as I just ran out of time!)</div>
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<i>What are you worrying about today? Give it to God! He cares for you, my friend!</i></div>
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41 years ago today the world welcomed a little boy who would one day become an older brother.</div>
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<i><b>My older brother.</b></i> </div>
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This brother who would tell my mother a few days after I was born to "take her back."</div>
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This brother who would one day need me to teach him to tie his shoes. </div>
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This brother whom I looked up to and wanted to play sports with all the time. </div>
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This brother who used to pretend to be my twin. </div>
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This brother who introduced me to great music and took me to amazing concerts almost every weekend as a teenager. </div>
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This brother who inspired me to go on my first mission trip and to pursue being a full-time missionary. </div>
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This brother who shares my love of reading and movies. </div>
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This brother whom I love and want to wish a very happy birthday!</div>
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<i>Will you all help me wish a happy birthday to my brother?</i></div>
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